Thread:TsukiYaksha/@comment-28016152-20160512212753/@comment-28011265-20160518061709

Tsuki: I also think wikia supports Anon 104.245.37.52 and Inuyashaluver22 and goes agaist some aspects.

ALL of this is from wikia. None are my quotes.

From: http://community.wikia.com/wiki/User_blog:Sannse/Converting_Conflict_to_Calm

‘Assume good Faith: One of the earliest wiki principles was "Assume Good Faith". When we're disagreeing, it's easy to think the other person is being malicious or is trying to do harm. Usually though, they're genuinely trying to do what's right, but have a different opinion on exactly what that means. Knowing that they mean well can help us talk to each other in a way that helps solve the problem.”

“Keep it about what you disagree on, and not who you disagree with. Remember that people may take what you say personally, even if that's not intended. "That's stupid" can often be heard as "you are stupid." “ ' Check your understanding: It's easy to misunderstand each other when you are talking via text. Tone is often impossible to read: your own emotions can influence how you think another is feeling and the tone you "hear" in their writing."

Be Flexible and find middle ground: "It's important to consider what options there are for compromise. Is there an alternative you can both agree on?"

“The important thing to remember is to assume someone's intentions are good. Most people are part of a community to help it, not to hurt it!” “Even if someone made an edit that needs to be reverted, it doesn't mean that their intention in making that edit was anything less than honorable. You should approach disagreements with a sense that the other person just wants to help, so you can be a friendly, honest, and caring voice in the community rather than someone who assumes that anyone who does something differently than you is out to ruin the project.” “. It's easy to get frustrated and impatient about this, but everyone needs a chance to learn - and at a pace that's as comfortable for them as possible.” '''“All in all, remember not to act as if their mistake was deliberate. Correct them, but don’t scold them. Inform, but don’t intimidate. These are people you want to keep on your wiki, so why scare them off?”'''  “you might start to feel that they are a bad editor, but that's almost never true if they care about the topic. Assuming good faith is all about intentions, not actions. Even if the person is wrong, that doesn’t mean they’re trying to ruin anything.” '''“Well-meaning people can take actions the rest of the community feels are unwise, and you should discuss the actions calmly and seek compromises wherever possible. What you should not do is accuse the person of vandalism or sabotage. Foster a culture of consensus, not condemnation.”''' “ Communities work together to build the information, to solve problems that arise, and to create a positive atmosphere for everyone to share their passion on the wikia.”

 ''' “Communities should come together to discuss issues and make decisions, rather than being done by a small group of admins. '''

Communities should be thought of as the ones ultimately in charge of a wikia.''' Admins are there to guide and support the community, but are not meant to be rulers. '''This idea is an ideal scenario”

 “This means that admins don’t make the rules on their own and don’t make unilateral decisions, but rather they use their tools to carry out the will of the community.”  

“To work towards the goals of the wikia, you always need to be willing to compromise.”

 “ To put it simply, assume everyone on a wikia is working together towards the common good until proven otherwise. The vast majority of people are here to help, not to cause problems. People will make mistakes, especially when they’re new, so don’t treat potentially great and helpful users like they’re troublemakers.”

“That is what leads to the last point: be open and welcoming to new contributors. People come and go, and the most dedicated contributors can only do so much.''' Without new users coming in, a wikia can’t survive. Always remember to give them the time they need to learn how wikias work, and to always be welcoming, helpful, and respectful of them.”'''

Some of those quotes are from here. http://community.wikia.com/wiki/Help:Assuming_good_faith

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">http://community.wikia.com/wiki/Help:Common_mistakes

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">“One of the great things about wikis are that they're communities of like-minded fans, where everyone has a hand in making decisions as a grou'''p. To that end, no single user owns a community, and that includes founders and administrators. Communities are owned by their members, and everyone is welcome to edit and contribute.”'''

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">“Communities work through the collaboration of reasonable and consensus-oriented people. Flaming people and being rude is rarely acceptable on an community.”

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">http://community.wikia.com/wiki/User_blog:Brandon_Rhea/Tips_for_being_a_great_admin

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">“We’ve established now that admins shouldn’t be rulers, and that decision-making should be something done by the entire community of users” 

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:"Times New Roman",serif">“A wiki is a volunteer project, and the admins should act as if they're the volunteer coordinators at a non-profit agency.”    

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Times New Roman",serif;color:windowtext">"Love your contributors. They're working for free. Some of hem are spending hours of their personal time every week. The only reward they get is the satisfaction of adding to the project, and the pleasure of working with a group.

<p class="MsoNormal">That's why you have to take care of your contributors - talk to them, welcome them, take their interests to heart. Learn their names. When something is bugging them or frustrating them, take care of it. Pay attention to them, and make sure they feel appreciated..”

http://community.wikia.com/wiki/Help:Making_a_successful_wikia

'''“When you talk with editors, you should always be friendly and patient. Show them that you are assuming good faith about their intentions, whether they are new or regular editors. This prevents or at least calms most conflicts, and it helps the community trust you. It also sets an important example for other editors and admins, which can lead to a more welcoming and positive atmosphere in the community.”'''